“And you can tell everybody that this is your song It may be quite simple but Now that it’s done I hope you don’t mind I hope you don’t mind That I put down in words How wonderful life is while you’re in the world.
I hope you don’t mind I hope you don’t mind That I put down in words How wonderful life is while you’re in the world.” Writer(s): Bernie Taupin, Elton John
Sometimes relationships with relatives and friends can get really messy. Misunderstandings and arguments can lead to anger, bitterness, separation and loneliness. Despite technological advances intended to improve communication and assist people in connecting more easily, many seem to be experiencing a disconnect from others these days. While pandemic isolation is hopefully in the rear-view mirror for now, maybe we could all benefit from opportunities to strengthen healthy friends and family relationships.
Betty & I had just such an opportunity this past week.
My last post spoke of the happiness that emanated from our week-long celebrations with our family. This can be considered “Part Two” – covering the final fun family frolicking before everyone but us headed back to Manitoba. BTW, I can now happily report that everyone made it home safely. Yeah!
When I consider the pictures taken this week, they speak to me of joyful relationships. Here are but a few examples:
The home we rented had at least eleven large, flat-screen televisions. But for the week we were together, I didn’t see one turned on – ever! In addition to all the inside and outside activities, our kids and grandkids brought games and puzzles, and days were filled laughing and chatting over “go” or “boggle” or “zombie kittens” or any number of other challenges.
Betty & I hope that your relationships also include some wonderful, joyful, life-giving hugs with those in your world!
“I hope you don’t mind I hope you don’t mind That I put down in words How wonderful life is while you’re in the world.”
After a very wonderful, active week with our kids and grandkids on South Padre Island, Betty & I have moved – temporarily – to a much quieter 55 + community of mainly “winter Texans”: Canadians and folks from northern states who escape the chillier winter weather for a few months of warmth in the Rio Grande Valley.
The Rio Grande Valley includes the cities of Brownsville, Harlingen, Weslaco, Pharr, McAllen, Edinburg, Mission, San Juan, and Rio Grande City, which are all located close to the Rio Grande River that forms the border between Texas and Mexico.
Good friends from our summer home at Town & Country – Pat and Gordie – have a winter spot in Mission, Texas, and arranged for us to stay at their park for a few weeks. We have been fortunate to also connect with a number of other folks from Town and Country to catch up on their news and compare the many RV parks in the valley.
While here we have been able to cross into Mexico a number of times, stocking up on medications for me, and accessing cheaper, good quality dental care for Betty.
A shop at a local flea market supplied and installed a new awning for our motorhome, replacing the one damaged by high winds as we left Magnolia Beach. They were able to re-use the acrylic fabric from our old awning to make three good quality toppers for our slide-outs.
A custom mattress manufacturer in North Carolina made a new mattress for our motorhome – to our exact specifications – and had it delivered to us in Mission within a week.
We have shopped at the local Costco while here (sorry you couldn’t join us Valerie), and picked up ingredients for some great meals, pillows for our new bed, and a slow-cooker to replace the one we left at the house on South Padre Island…
Pat and Gordie have been helpful in a number of ways, including acclimatizing us to the local night life and introducing us to their friends.
Our three weeks here are almost over. As we prepare to head further west to Arizona, it has been a great time for Betty and me to get a flavour of what the Rio Grande Valley has to offer. If you have an opportunity, we highly recommend a visit to this fascinating part of the continent.
As I went walking that ribbon of highway, I saw above me that endless skyway; I saw below me that golden valley This land was made for you and me.
I roamed and I rambled and I followed my footsteps, To the sparkling sands of her diamond deserts; While all around me a voice was sounding, Saying this land was made for you and me.
The sun came shining, and I was strolling, And the wheat fields waving and the dust clouds rolling; As the fog was lifting, a voice was chanting, This land was made for you and me.”
Original by Woody Guthrie. This version by The Travellers, 1955.
In over six years of full-time RVing, Betty & I have been excited to tour places we have never visited before. Of course, the North American continent is so vast that there will always be new spots we haven’t seen. But we have been doing our best. Lol.
This portion of our overlandish odyssey took us, for our first time, down the banks of the Mississippi River. And we hope it will take us through Nevada, Utah, and Wyoming – three of the four contiguous states we haven’t yet toured on this trip.
But there’s something satisfying and calming to return to locations we have enjoyed in the past. Because we don’t yet know whether this will be our last hurrah, so to speak, Betty & I decided to forgo an adventure on the Blue Ridge Parkway through the Great Smokey Mountains. Instead, we are re-visiting some of our favourite spots from previous trips.
Since we left Winnipeg, we have made return visits to Buccaneer State Park in Mississippi, New Orleans, Galveston Island, and of course South Padre Island, which comes in at the top of our favourites. No doubt the icing on the cake was a fabulous visit there from our family in February!
A new campground this week will be City of Rocks State Park in New Mexico, before hopeful visits to Gilbert Ray campground in Tucson, and BLM land in Quartzsite, other favourites.
As is always the case, our journey through life is a combination of new and exciting experiences, and ideally some satisfying and calming return favourite times, people and places. Here’s hoping you get a suitable balance of both new and familiar adventures!
“This land is your land, and this land is my land From California to the New York island From the Redwood Forest to the Gulf Stream waters This land was made for you and me….” Written by Woody Guthrie, 1940.
“Hey, did you rock ‘n’ roll? Rock on Ooh, my soul Hey, did you boogie too, did ya?
Hey, shout, summertime blues Jump up (up, down) and down in my blue suede shoes Hey, did you rock ‘n’ roll? Rock on…” David Essex
Yes, David Essex, I am boogying and jumping up and down in my blue suede shoes!
As mentioned in our last post, Betty & I planned to travel to City Of Rocks State Park, about 29 miles northwest of Deming, New Mexico. It wasn’t directly on our Interstate 10 route to Tucson, Arizona. But a fellow traveller had recommended it, so we thought we’d check it out. If you are at all interested in some very weird rock formations, this is the place to go. Rock on!
“And where do we go from here? Which is a way that’s clear? Still looking for that blue-jean baby-queen Prettiest girl I’ve ever seen See her shake on the movie screen Jimmy Dean (James Dean)
hey, did you rock ‘n’ roll? Rock on (Rock on) hey, did you rock ‘n’ roll? Rock on (Rock on) hey, did you rock ‘n’ roll? Rock on.”
Where do we go from here? Which is the way that’s clear?
“This is the story of how we begin to remember This is the powerful pulsing of love in the vein After the dream of falling and calling your name out These are the roots of rhythm And the roots of rhythm remain
In early memory Mission music Was ringing ’round my nursery door I said take this child, Lord From Tucson Arizona Give her the wings to fly through harmony And she won’t bother you no more…” from Paul Simon’s song Under African Skies.
Our memories over the years have taken Betty & me back to some magical places, including Tucson, Arizona. Blog posts from March 2018 reflect our first visit here, and we are glad for the rhythmic pictures that help us remember well.
We are excited to be back in Gilbert Ray campground, just up the narrow, curvy road from Old Tucson, where so many spaghetti westerns were filmed. In fact, we are currently in the same campsite – A56 – we occupied at this exact same time six years ago! (currently $35. night with 50 amp electricity and picnic table.) And we were in this same site again on Dec. 13, 2019, as reflected in the post “Return To The Big Frickin Cactus.” It obviously left us something to remember!
Speaking of remembering, last night I dutifully set the clocks forward one hour in recognition of daylight savings time. However, when I got up this morning, the time on my phone had not changed. Betty checked and found that Arizona is the only state in the contiguous U.S. that doesn’t adopt daylight savings time, except the part of Arizona that is within the Navajo Nation . So for our family back in Manitoba, we now have a two hour time difference. Who knew?
Our hope is that you can also remember well people and places that have led to the powerful pulsing of love in your veins. May your memories give you wings to fly through harmony whatever life brings your way!
“This is the story of how we begin to remember This is the powerful pulsing of love in the vein After the dream of falling and calling your name out These are the roots of rhythm And the roots of rhythm remain…”
When one thinks of a desert, we often visualize a barren land, devoid of development. Yes, Quartzsite, Arizona is bordering the Mojavi Desert, with no snow and little rainfall each year. It gets extremely hot in summers, with average temperatures over 100f (over 40c). But Betty & I are back here in March 2024, having made a hasty retreat from this same spot exactly four years ago today, due to the outbreak of the coronavirus. The forecast is for low seventies Fahrenheit (low twenties Celsius) for the next few days, then the low eighties Fahrenheit (low thirties Celsius) later this week. Nights cool off to comfortable sleeping temperatures.
Betty & I find this desert setting calming for a number of reasons. The fact that it is devoid of development means that we are not faced with the hustle and bustle of urban life. There are no traffic jams, and even relatively few traffic lights. It has generally a very quiet, laid-back vibe. That might not be desirable for the long term, but for a short time it is reminiscent of some of the calming retreats we experienced in our youth.
But before I go further in describing our current experience, maybe I should provide an update from our last post:
Everyone we have encountered here has been extremely friendly. As mentioned in earlier posts about Quartzsite, RVers can park as close, or as far away from neighbours as they wish. There are hundreds of square miles of Bureau of Land Management land to choose from, so location is personal preference. And you don’t have to stay on BLM land. There are a number of full-service RV parks in town, with a variety of services and amenities, at very reasonable prices – if you don’t come in January. Ok, maybe I should add that January is when the Big Tent is set up, and hundreds of thousands of people descend on Quartzsite for RV rallies & shows – so maybe not so calming then. Lol.
We have chosen to return to the same little loop in La Posa West Long-Term Visitor Area. While other areas are free, we have paid $40. for a two-week permit that allows us to access water, dump our tanks, and empty our garbage as needed. Previously we had paid $170. for a stay up to 7 months in the same location. Given the cost of living elsewhere, cheap or free here has a significant calming effect. Lol.
When we were here before, there were generally 5 RVs parked in this loop, with the number temporarily increasing to 8 or 9 in January. Currently there are only 2 other RVs in our loop. One is an old “schoolie”, and the other is a type A diesel-pusher.
Quartzsite is definitely not for everyone. But for Betty & me, at this time of our lives, and at this point in our journey, it is nice to stay for a few weeks in a location with no pressure and no responsibilities, beyond occasionally picking up a few groceries and moderating the amount we spend in the sun.
Hoping you can also find a calming space to escape an otherwise hectic world from time to time.
“I like the way your sparkling earrings lay Against your skin so brown And I want to sleep with you in the desert night With a billion stars all around
‘Cause I got a peaceful easy feelin’ And I know you won’t let me down ‘Cause I’m already standin’ On the ground…” Eagles (1972)
For over six years now, Betty & I have been travelling the North American continent on our overlandish odyssey. As we consider – for health reasons – whether this will be our last hurrah, we recognize how blessed we have been to have experienced so much – so many great people, places, sights, smells and sounds. We will forever cherish these memories of peaceful, easy feelings!
As mentioned in a recent post, Betty & I have been returning to some favourite spots, possibly for the last time. We are now finishing our stay in Quartzsite, Arizona, and we can well relate to the Eagles’ peaceful, easy feeling, with skin so brown from the sun, and desert nights so bright with a billion stars all around!
Despite Betty needing to fight a painful bout of sciatica, we have still been able to stand on this special ground and enjoy a return to desert activities experienced during earlier visits.
Wherever your journey through life takes you, Betty & I hope that you also will be blessed from time to time with peaceful, easy feelings that won’t let you down.
“‘Cause I get a peaceful easy feelin’ And I know you won’t let me down ‘Cause I’m already standin’ I’m already standin’ Yes, I’m already standin’ On the ground.”
“Viva Las Vegas with you neon flashing And your one armed bandits crashing All those hopes down the drain Viva Las Vegas, turning day into nighttime Turning night into daytime If you see it once You’ll never be the same again
I’m gonna keep on the run, I’m gonna have me some fun If it costs me my very last dime If I wind up broke, oh well, I’ll always remember That I had a swinging time
I’m gonna give it everything I’ve got Lady luck please let the dice stay hot Let me shoot a seven with every shot Viva Las Vegas Viva Las Vegas Viva Las Vegas Viva, Viva Las Vegas”. Elvis Presley, 1964
After leaving Quartzsite, Betty & I are finally heading north, back to Canada. As usual, we are not driving too fast, starting with a brief visit to Emerald Canyon Golf Club, just north of Parker, Az.
“I’m gonna keep on the run, I’m gonna have me some fun If it costs me my very last dime If I wind up broke, oh well, I’ll always remember That I had a swinging time…
Viva, Viva Las Vegas”
While Betty & I didn’t gamble while here, we hope you can take a chance to have a swinging time somewhere, without losing your last dime. lol.
“This is the end Beautiful friend This is the end My only friend, the end Of our elaborate plans, the end Of everything that stands, the end No safety or surprise, the end I’ll never look into your eyes again
Can you picture what will be So limitless and free Desperately in need of some stranger’s hand In a desperate land
This is the end Beautiful friend This is the end My only friend, the end
It hurts to set you free But you’ll never follow me The end of laughter and soft lies The end of nights we tried to die
This is the end This is the end.” Jim Morrison, The Doors (1967)
Despite being a big fan of Jim Morrison and The Doors – having seen them perform live at Cobo Hall in Detroit – I can’t fully explain why I would choose this morose, nihilistic song for this final post. If music had been added to this blog, maybe a trumpet playing “The Last Post” would have been more appropriate. But The Doors song has been sliding around my brain for the past couple of weeks, while Betty & I have made our way north – back into Manitoba.
Our overlandish odyssey over the past seven years has been a joyous blessing (with one year off to deal with health issues and a couple of years of limited travel – surviving the coronavirus)! It would be far more fitting to finish this blog with the Beatles version of “The End”. Maybe you’ll need to read further to see how it concludes. Lol.
After leaving Las Vegas, each of our nine northbound stops was for one night, with the exception of Provo, Utah, where we stayed a second night to dump our tanks and fill up with fresh water. Until we reached Nebraska, most days were spent in mountainous terrain.
We had been apprehensive about how our motorhome would perform, given many previous issues traversing the Rocky Mountains. But our old boy has never ran so well as it did on this trip back to Canada!. The Banks Power system, coupled with a new fuel pump added last summer, provided power to spare going up and down the many steep grades.
Every aspect of this journey was a marvelous blessing! Betty & I have been tremendously fortunate to experience so many great people and places. In well over 200 posts, this blog has chronicled our travels across most of North America. While there is never an end to the possibilities for adventure, we have more or less reached the goal set out at the beginning of this blog in November and December, 2017.
Hopefully you and we will have more joyful, memorable journeys to come. But for now – this is the end…
“Oh yeah, all right Are you going to be in my dreams Tonight?
…Love you, love you,
Love you, love you…
And in the end The love you take Is equal to the love you make.” John Lennon, Paul McCartney (1969)
Thanks for reading and joining us vicariously on this overlandish odyssey. For each of us, may the end of one journey lead to the beginning of another.