Joyful Relationships

“And you can tell everybody that this is your song
It may be quite simple but
Now that it’s done
I hope you don’t mind
I hope you don’t mind
That I put down in words
How wonderful life is while you’re in the world.

I hope you don’t mind
I hope you don’t mind
That I put down in words
How wonderful life is while you’re in the world.” 
Writer(s): Bernie Taupin, Elton John 

One last group pic before everyone leaves South Padre Island.

Sometimes relationships with relatives and friends can get really messy. Misunderstandings and arguments can lead to anger, bitterness, separation and loneliness.  Despite technological advances intended to improve communication and assist people in connecting more easily, many seem to be experiencing a disconnect from others these days. While pandemic isolation is hopefully in the rear-view mirror for now, maybe we could all benefit from opportunities to strengthen healthy friends and family relationships.

Nana & James enjoy a snuggle in one of Andrew’s hammocks.

Betty & I had just such an opportunity this past week. 

Betty & Lisa share a hug.

My last post spoke of the happiness that emanated from our week-long celebrations with our family. This can be considered “Part Two” – covering the final fun family frolicking before everyone but us headed back to Manitoba. BTW, I can now happily report that everyone made it home safely. Yeah!

James tries to beat his dad in a game of pool.

When I consider the pictures taken this week, they speak to me of joyful relationships. Here are but a few examples:

Valerie leads a stretching family yoga session.

The home we rented had at least eleven large, flat-screen televisions. But for the week we were together, I didn’t see one turned on – ever! In addition to all the inside and outside activities, our kids and grandkids brought games and puzzles, and days were filled laughing and chatting over “go” or “boggle” or “zombie kittens” or any number of other challenges.

Sharing meal times is always an important part of joyful relationships.
But just sitting for a cuddle with Nana is also good too…
Andrew practices putting while his dad looks on.
Of course shared walks on the beach are also a great time to connect.
And share a meeting of the minds.
Or just pose by the calming Gulf waters.
But everything wasn’t always just calming. There were some hair-raising rides as well!
Including scary ones where it was best to hold hands.
Or go with your Dad.
And it’s usually good to have a Dad or uncle with you when the world goes merrily around.
Amusement parks are always a fun shared experience.
But so is sharing a big sandcastle chair.
Or showing a pirate where to go to find the hidden treasure.
Then there’s this fearsome pirate who also seems to have found the ice cream. lol
Overall, our short time together helped strengthen some joyful relationships.

Betty & I hope that your relationships also include some wonderful, joyful, life-giving hugs with those in your world!

“I hope you don’t mind
I hope you don’t mind
That I put down in words
How wonderful life is while you’re in the world.”

Cheers!

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